All men are welcome on my oversized, well padded table, including big men, men of color, and men of all orientations. If you're looking for relief from muscle aches and pain, a soothing break from mental and physical stress, the pleasure of male touch and connection, or the thrill of giving up control, I’m here to care for you with three sessions to choose from.
My diverse array of clients do have one thing in common. They all expect spa-quality, traditional work from a trained, experienced, and truly skilled pro. Regardless of which session you select, you will receive that from me.
I am an RN with certificates in Swedish, Deep Tissue, Myofascial Release, and Sports Massage earned in 2005-2006. I blend those traditional techniques to meet your unique needs.
I am very methodical and rhythmic in my approach, thoroughly working each muscle group from head to toe. Deeper pressure is applied slowly, with precision, after muscles are properly warmed up, and I incorporate broad, soothing, body length strokes. I apply oil sparingly to my hands instead of pouring it over your body. I time my work to coincide with your natural breathing rather than tell you how or when to breathe. I incorporate gentle rocking, stretching, and pulling, but I do not intentionally "crack" your back or joints.
Adding sensual elements to your traditional session affirms our male energy and deepens our connection. "Sensual" can mean different things to different people, so I take the time to learn what you enjoy and do not enjoy. Mutual touch is welcome and I am comfortable with nudity (links to photos at the bottom of the page).
I do not practice Tantric massage which typically includes massage of the prostate. For Tantric work, I recommend AustinoEros.com.
This add-on automatically includes sensual elements. It requires a 90 minute appointment and reduces the amount of traditional work by 30-50%.
Adding physical or psychological* bondage and/or an optional blindfold to your session allows you to more fully focus attention on the pleasure you receive. I do not administer pain, even if pain is your pleasure.
I have been a member of the BDSM community for three decades, exploring both dominant and submissive roles. I've provided education about BDSM negotiation and relationships in interviews and on my own podcast, Sexual Heroes.
*Psychological bondage simply requires that you hold a position as instructed.Clear communication in advance is the key to making sure that we enjoy a great session together. Appointments are placed on hold for up to 24 hours pending my receipt of the New Client Intake. Once I receive and review it, the appointment is confirmed.
For same-day and next-day appointments, the intake needs to be completed ASAP.
I use fractionated coconut oil to do my work because it is effective, it has only one odorless ingredient, clients are unlikely to have an allergy to it, it moisturizes your skin without feeling greasy, it has anti-microbial properties, and it thoroughly washes out of clothes and sheets!
I have an extra wide table with thick padding to comfortably accommodate big men. It's unlikely your arms will be dangling off the sides. Bears are welcome! Woof!
Blackout and sound dampening curtains on two walls and an optional eye mask.
If soft, ethereal, instrumental music isn't your thing, you can provide me with a link to your own YouTube Music playlist, or just name a "seed" song, artist, or genre to create a "radio station."
You may begin and end your session with an "aroma burst" from an essential oil. Oils vary.
I can wipe you down with warm, moist towels, or let what little coconut oil remains to moisturize your skin. A shower is not available.
I offer bottled water, or you can be "green" and bring your own.
To alleviate pre-appointment anxiety, a client may arrive up to 10 minutes early and up to 10 minutes late (preferably early). Regardless of when you arrive during that window of time and how much time we spend getting acquainted, you will receive at least the full 90 or 60 minutes of scheduled session time on the table (possibly more if you have no time constraints).
I rarely allow more than one client to schedule an appointment in a single day, and never schedule back to back appointments, so at the end of your session you can take your time coming "back to earth" and getting dressed.
I am vaccinated against CV19, MPX, and the flu.
The studio is not wheelchair or walker accessible, but I may be able to accommodate you with a house call in Palm Springs or Cathedral City if you provide the table. Email for more information.
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