If you're looking for relief from muscle aches and pain, a soothing break from mental and physical stress, the pleasure of male touch and connection, or the thrill of giving up control, I’m here to care for you with three sessions to choose from.
Many clients describe being taken on a spiritual journey or leaving their body during a session. I believe that is a result of their trust in me and feeling safe to let go. It is a great honor.
I am formally trained (2005-2006), with certificates in Swedish, Deep Tissue and Myofascial Release, and Sports Massage. I blend those traditional techniques to meet your unique needs.
I am very methodical and rhythmic in my approach, thoroughly working each muscle group from head to toe. Deeper pressure is applied slowly, with precision, after muscles are properly warmed up, and I incorporate broad, soothing, body length strokes. I apply oil sparingly to my hands instead of pouring it over your body. I time my work to coincide with your natural breathing, rather than tell you how or when to breathe. I incorporate gentle rocking, stretching, and pulling, but I do not intentionally "crack" your back or joints; that is a job for your chiropractor.
I love to affirm our male energy and deepen our connection by adding sensual elements to a traditional session. "Sensual" can mean different things to different people, so I take the time to learn what you enjoy and do not enjoy. I am happy to work in the nude. Mutual touch is welcome. Arousal is encouraged, not shamed.
I am not trained in or practice Tantric massage, which often focuses on massage of the prostate.
This session includes sensual elements and 50-65% traditional work. A 90 minute appointment is required.
A bondage (or "bond-edge") session is a great opportunity to experience the thrill and feeling of freedom (yes, freedom) that comes with giving up control. It is all about pleasure. I do not administer pain, even if pain is your pleasure.
I have been a member of the BDSM community for three decades, exploring both dominant and submissive roles. I've provided education about BDSM negotiation and relationships in interviews and on my own podcast, Sexual Heroes.
If you are an existing client, you may request a special session of your own design for my consideration.
Clear communication in advance is the key to making sure that we enjoy a great session together. Appointments are placed on hold for up to 24 hours pending my receipt of the New Client Intake. Once I receive and review it, the appointment is confirmed.
For same-day and next-day appointments, the intake needs to be completed ASAP.
I use fractionated coconut oil to do my work because it is effective, it has only one odorless ingredient, clients are unlikely to have an allergy to it, it moisturizes your skin without feeling greasy, it has anti-microbial properties, and it thoroughly washes out of clothes and sheets!
I have an extra wide table with thick padding to comfortably accommodate big men. It's unlikely your arms will be dangling off the sides. Bears are welcome! Woof!
Blackout and sound dampening curtains on two walls and an optional eye mask.
If soft, ethereal, instrumental music isn't your thing, you can provide me with a link to your own YouTube Music playlist, or just name a "seed" song, artist, or genre to create a "radio station."
You may begin and end your session with an "aroma burst" from an essential oil. Oils vary.
I can wipe you down with warm, moist towels, or let what little coconut oil remains to moisturize your skin. A shower is not available.
I offer bottled water, or you can be "green" and bring your own.
I am vaccinated against CV19, MPX, and the flu.
The studio is not wheelchair or walker accessible, but I may be able to accommodate you with a house call in Palm Springs or Cathedral City if you provide the table or a table is not required. Email for more information.
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