All men are welcome on my oversized, well padded table, including big bears, hairy men, men of color, and men of all orientations. If you're looking for relief from muscle aches and pain, a soothing break from mental and physical stress, or the pleasure of male touch and connection, I’m here to care for you.
I am a retired RN with certificates in Swedish, sports, deep tissue, and myofascial release earned in 2005-2006.
I am very methodical and rhythmic in my approach, thoroughly working each muscle group from head to toe. Deeper pressure is applied slowly, with precision, after muscles are properly warmed up, and I incorporate broad, soothing, body length strokes. I apply unscented oil sparingly to my hands instead of pouring it over your body. I time my work to coincide with your natural breathing rather than tell you how or when to breathe. I incorporate gentle rocking, stretching, and pulling, but I do not intentionally "crack" your back or joints.
Overall, I'd call my technique "deep Swedish."
Aside from necessary check-ins, I do not chat unless you do. I do not wear anything with a fragrance.
On request, I'm happy to add sensual elements to a traditional session. The specific elements depend on what you find sensual and what you do not. Mutual nudity and mutual touch are examples of two frequently desired elements.
⚠️ I am not a tantric or Body Electric practitioner, nor do I massage the prostate.
🍆 If you would like to view photos/videos of me or learn what arouses me, links are provided at the bottom of the page.
This add-on, offered exclusively to return clients, automatically includes sensual elements. It requires a 90 minute appointment and reduces the amount of traditional work by 30-50%.
Adding bondage and/or an optional blindfold to your session allows you to more fully focus on your pleasure. This is not a "hardcore" BDSM session. It does not include impact play such as spanking and CBT nor use of toys.
I have been a member of the BDSM community for three decades, exploring both dominant and submissive roles. I've provided education about BDSM negotiation and relationships in interviews and on my own podcast, Sexual Heroes.
I do not offer a "couple's session," back to back appointments, or outcalls, nor do I allow anyone to watch someone else's session.
Clear communication in advance is the key to making sure we enjoy a great session together. New clients are asked to complete an intake within 24 hours of making their request for an appointment. For same-day and next-day appointments, the intake needs to be completed ASAP. After I receive and review the intake, the appointment is confirmed.
I use fractionated coconut oil to do my work because it is effective, it has only one odorless ingredient, clients are unlikely to have an allergy to it, it moisturizes your skin without feeling greasy, it has anti-microbial properties, and it thoroughly washes out of clothes and sheets!
You are also welcome to bring your own oil or lotion.
The table is extra wide with thick padding to comfortably accommodate big men. It's unlikely your arms will be dangling off the sides. Bears will feel welcome! Woof!
The studio has blackout and sound dampening curtains on two walls. An eye mask is also available.
Default music is soft, ethereal, and instrumental. You may suggest any other genre.
An essential oil "aroma burst" is optional at the beginning, middle, and/or end of your session.
I offer warm, moist towels to remove what little coconut oil remains on your skin (or leave it on as a moisturize). A shower is not available.
Bottled water is provided, or you can be "green" and bring your own.
A client may arrive up to 10 minutes early and up to 10 minutes late (preferably early). If you arrive on time you will get the full 60 or 90 minutes scheduled on my table regardless of how much time we spend getting acquainted. If you are late, the time may be deducted from your session, and if late more than 10 minutes, you may be denied the appointment. If denied, the appointment may be rescheduled at my discretion.
If a session runs longer than the scheduled duration, there is never an additional fee.
I am vaccinated against CV19, MPX, and the flu.
The studio is not wheelchair or walker accessible, but I may be able to accommodate you with a house call in Palm Springs or Cathedral City if you provide the table. Email for more information.
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