All men are welcome on my oversized, well padded table, including big bears, hairy men, men of color, and men of all orientations. If you're looking for relief from muscle aches and pain, a soothing break from mental and physical stress, or the pleasure of male touch and connection, I’m here to care for you.
I am a retired RN and former personal trainer with certificates earned in 2005-2006 for Swedish, sports, deep tissue, and myofascial release.
Overall, I'd call my technique "deep Swedish."
I am very methodical and rhythmic in my approach, thoroughly working each muscle group from head to toe. Deeper pressure is applied slowly, with precision, after muscles are properly warmed up, and I incorporate broad, soothing, body length strokes. I apply unscented oil sparingly to my hands instead of pouring it over your body. I time my work to coincide with your natural breathing rather than tell you how or when to breathe. I incorporate gentle rocking, stretching, and pulling, but I do not intentionally "crack" your back or joints.
Aside from one or two necessary check-ins, I do not chat unless you do. I do not wear anything with a fragrance.
Sensual elements are optional and free to include with the traditional elements. The specific elements depend on what you find sensual and what you do not. Mutual nudity and mutual touch are examples of two frequently desired elements. You can share your desires in the pre-appointment questionnaire. Sensual bondage is an option reserved for return clients.
If you would like to view photos/videos of me or learn about my own desires, links are provided at the bottom of the page.
🚫 I am not a tantric or Body Electric practitioner, nor do I massage the prostate.
🚫I do not offer a couple's session, back to back appointments, or house calls, nor is someone allowed to watch another person's session.
A pre-appointment questionnaire is key to making sure I understand your unique needs and preferences. After I receive your first appointment request, I will email you a link to the questionnaire which must be completed by the due date/time (24 hours or less). After I review it, I will confirm your appointment.
I use fractionated coconut oil because it:
is effective for the variety of techniques I use - just a few drops goes a long way
is great as a moisturizer and doesn't feel greasy
is odorless
has one ingredient - an allergic reaction is unlikely
has anti-microbial properties
thoroughly washes out of clothes and sheets!
You are also welcome to bring your own oil or lotion.
The table is extra wide with thick padding to comfortably accommodate big men. It's unlikely your arms will be dangling off the sides. Bears will feel welcome! Woof!
Fully adjustable face cradle
The studio has blackout and sound dampening curtains on two walls. An eye mask is also available.
Default music is soft, ethereal, and instrumental. You may suggest any other genre.
An essential oil "aroma burst" is optional at the beginning, middle, and/or end of your session.
I offer warm, moist towels to remove what little coconut oil remains on your skin (or leave it on as a moisturizer). A shower is not available.
Bottled water is provided, or you can be "green" and bring your own.
A client may arrive up to 10 minutes early and up to 10 minutes late. If you arrive on time you will get the full 60 or 90 minutes scheduled on my table regardless of how much time we spend getting acquainted. If you are late, the time may be deducted from your session, and if late more than 10 minutes, you may be denied the appointment. If denied, the appointment may be rescheduled at my discretion.
If a session runs longer than the scheduled duration, there is never an additional fee.
I am vaccinated against CV19, MPX, and the flu.
The studio is not wheelchair or walker accessible, but I may be able to accommodate you with a house call in Palm Springs or Cathedral City if you provide the table. Email for more information.
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Substack "On Being Soloflexible" (post about my sexuality)
Substack "A Five Senses Approach to Describe My Sexuality" (post about my sexuality)
Bluesky @RobertBlackXXX.com (photos, videos)
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